Matthew 5:38-39
"You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.' But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also."
Matthew 5:40-42
"If anyone wants to sue you and take away your tunic, let him have your cloak also. And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away."
The old law of "an eye for an eye" was originally given to limit revenge—so that punishment would not be greater than the offense. But Jesus calls his followers to an even higher standard: to respond to evil with good. "Turning the other cheek" does not mean we should be weak or allow abuse. It means we should not be controlled by a desire for revenge. When someone treats us unfairly, we can choose to respond with dignity and generosity instead of striking back. Going the "extra mile" means serving beyond what is required of us. This kind of response breaks the cycle of hatred and shows the world a different way to live—the way of the kingdom of God.
When someone is unkind to you, resist the urge to retaliate. Instead, pause and ask God for the strength to respond with patience and grace. Look for an opportunity to go the "extra mile" for someone this week—do more than what is expected, whether at work, at home, or in your community. A generous spirit is a powerful witness.
What do you think Jesus means by "turning the other cheek"? What does He not mean?
When was a time someone responded to your unkindness with kindness? How did it affect you?
Where can you "go the extra mile" for someone this week?